https://www.shondaland.com/live/family/a43646147/going-to-my-first-phish-concert-was-an-act-of-love/
I thought this was a great read. You could change the band name to the Grateful Dead and see how it applies to your own love life situation. I know some on here have significant others that hate this love of theirs. Others who introduced them and they love it themselves now. Or some who realized it would never work if they didn't already have that same love.
You’ll still find me on street corners preaching about 4/29/71 being the greatest performance the Dead ever did, which of course includes the best Hard to Handle ever performed. Tea has a rookies ear and really just doesn’t listen to enough GD to weigh in on this topic. Nice guy tho.