Lights out concert

[GoingBackTo Where....]

I can easily make things awkard.  It's a skill, innate, agravating, but innocent.  

Throwing out bombs is no fun unless you see people jump out of the way while watching others jump right on it!!  

PG, your words are always loaded with subtext.  Your words always mean more than most!! If anyone showed a condensending word or two, it was me!!  

I throw things out, hopefully makes others think beyond d the social box we live in.  It's not frivolous however, just worded in a way to create confusion.  Seeds always need planting before they grow;)!!

 I stay away for a while, I have to come back ablazing....would be out of character other wise  Consider my words solar wind!! A little disruption:)!!

Although, might be in a little battle against the sexes considering my past.  It's almost done!!!  But it has fucking cost me a lot.  Cost a lot to win, even more to loose;)!!  

Love y'all, see y'all soon.  It will be a good time seeing those dancing bones.  Missed Carolina, got left in rocky mount, and swore no Jubilee, but you can only control the dance monster for so long!!!  Everybodies dancing....come on now, come on and shake your.......;))))).   If u said penis, you failed your gd knowledge hippie hood!!!

Love y'all...and thanks for entertaining!!

Since when did rude become a passifisct?

 

 

[Mango]

Sunny, I think 'receptive' is a much more fitting word than 'submissive'. It is the energy of feminine, to receive. Submitting may be appropriate for our misguided culture but is not reflective of the deeper truth.

[ducats]

9 hours ago, PoetryGirl said:

My post isn't about one person. I believe if you look at my comment objectively you will see that joke goes far further than this thread.

My point is "what you seek is also seeking you" (Rumi) - what you look for is reflected And comes to you.  If one perseverates in  the lower chakras that is what you see in the world.  And lord knows those chakras are in full throttle in the world.- maybe one day the majority will make it to the heart---  And after all - what divides man initially from animal  was the move to homo erectus. The fact that I am in medicine is irrelevant and is not meant to be condescending. 

"Women are Smarter" the way the Dead sang it always comes across.... - well, I was never quite sure the intention and think it is up to the listener. The original intent of the song was blaming women for corrupting men with sexual thoughts of their beauty and  inciting man's desire.

But viva la difference ! It is all good. 

GW- I think some reaction is to calling women submissive- it bothered me. Did you mean passive ? Femininity is more of a noun- masculinity a verb. We all have both inside.

Maybe the point is - Take this opportunity to connect with both.  Everyone! 

Peace and harmony  to you all

I love when u talk like this. don't have the slightest idea what you're saying but the way you enjoy saying it turns me on. no disrespect to Mr. Poetry.

[ducats]

4 hours ago, PoetryGirl said:

It was SPINE you big ole perv

hate to let u down but it was PENIS to me

[2muchfun]

I like ole Rudy as well lol. GW's posts bother me because it makes arguing against all men are pigs more difficult.

To further deteriorate this thread, I can point to one event that has caused most of the social breakdowns as well as point out how technology makes the rich richer and the poor poorer...that is the birth control pill. 

When it first came out (late 50's early 60's?) it spawned the sexual revolution...I.e. Women can now say yes without the dreaded abortion or 18 year sentence without parole...but generally only middle class to rich white woman. Minority's had little access (as with tech today) due to cost or needing a prescription. But seeing their Caucasian sisters having all the fun caused them to take risks and single motherhood in minority populations soared. Since humans as a species...sorry that's all we actually are...have been dealt the hand by nature of needing 2 parents for quite some time to adequately raise children...Many social upheavals broke loose.

To satisfy GW primordial instincts, yes In cavemen days women had the long hair so men could drag them around and children look like their father in most cases so they stick around knowing it was indeed theirs.

Jubilee looking more and more likely so in honor of primordial acts I can't wait to join all and shake my bones.

[Dr. Barry]

 

Shut your eyes and listen
To the colors of your mind (easy answers)
Give yourself a breath of air
Let your soul unwind (easy answers)
You don't have to say a word
If you got dick to say (easy answers)
'Cause no one ever said
There gonna be an easy way (easy answers)
 

[GoingBackTo Where....]

6 hours ago, Mango said:

Sunny, I think 'receptive' is a much more fitting word than 'submissive'. It is the energy of feminine, to receive. Submitting may be appropriate for our misguided culture but is not reflective of the deeper truth.

Damnit Mango, you go all Gia on me.  Hate to mention, but I receive as well.  Especially while driving.....trucker tend to honk.  Does that make me feminine?   Is that why watching two girls flipped..or 69..also a good year for gd...is so awesome?  Both are receptive, which, as a man I am sort of all about!!  Wide spectrum here, but still...

Rewording a concept will change meanings, understanding, and language..over time.  I don't think I am as progressive as you or 2 much. 

Women are flowers to be enjoyed, smelled, like a honey suckle, tasted.  Absolute perfection for their counterpart.  

I admire many of women, lived others, got twisted and bent by one... Never broke me, but got damn close.  Women, through out history have been key in many of humanity's biggest events.  They are many things, and have Influnced culture way before the sexual revaloution.  Unfortunately it was the great society that broke down the economically inept, not abortion.  

Do I respect women.  For sure, but do I respect all, no way, nor men.  Sorry,. I am not low curve of the bell, elitist here.  But one who has to learn a out this femanin energy.  I get a idea that I am well versed in feminine energy, I am almost a catalyst for it, ask Rick from past Richmond shows....

Had a point.  Lost in a lake of fire.  Good night.  Dork I may be, I silly really love dancing silly to this music.  

Dso bring on music which keeps us guessing what's next.  So lucky to dance to these sounds with y'all.  Thanks, I know, I am a lain in the ass, but y'all have taking care of me on so many levels.  Greatful fool, foolish enough to dance like it's my last show.  

Been working on a back flip to integrate in the dance.  Watch out. ;)!!!

[Dr. Barry]

 

There were days,
and there were days,
and there were days I know.
When all we ever wanted,
was to learn and love and grow...

[Mango]

Both genders contain aspects of the other. To be in touch with your feminine side, as a male, is to find balance. 

[Tom Banjo]

Barry I think going back more referring to lyrics like this

Im a body and fender man let me fix your car when it comes to bodies and fenders im some kind of super star

 

ill bend and shake your body bend your fender out and in if I don't get it right the first time baby I'll head right back again. 

I prefer receptive to submissive but I'm gonna leave this conversation to those wiser than me. 

[Dr. Barry]

Pigpen was the absolute king of misogyny in lyric. Stuff that today wouldn't fly. Stuff that is more than a bit over the line. Themes that more than tread on child abuse (schoolgirl). 

I have wondered what the band thought to themselves when Pig would say "and I don't care if you're only (fill in the blank but you know it's less than 18) years of age. And I wish I could go back in time and see the looks on their faces when he said it. No reaction? A laugh? A shake of the head?

Even when Barraco does a Pig rap and goes into that kind of thing I hear gasps from the crowd. But everyone knows he is both channeling and being true to Pig. It's different. Can't whitewash that stuff and wouldn't want to. And to say it isn't thrilling to experience it when Rob lets it really rip that way would be a lie.

And if I was more of a dead scholar and had more ambition I would like to listen to every schoolgirl and document the actual "age" that Pig says at the end and reference it by year etc., and look for any patterns and the particular raunchiness and "quality" of the particular version in every regard. The rap, the playing, the locale, etc. 

Dr. B

[2muchfun]

All I know is in 1st grade you could pull a girl's PIG tails without involving lawyers or human resources.

[ducats]

2 funny 2 much.  I was one of the first to have a girlfriend.  started second half of 4th grade with me pulling her ponytails. blossomed over the summer and kisses kisses all through 5th grade.

I still can't walk and I see they rocked out last night.

[GoingBackTo Where....]

A 15 year old kid for charged with kiddie porn because his 15 year old girl friend wanted to have fun and let him take some sexy photos.  

I was just as horney at 15 then I am current, and there were many women well over 20 some 30's who took full advantage of my libido, and willingness to learn and explore.  

Are those women wrong, or not...because I am male and it's natural for males to want sex?  Don't women want sex?  Would it be ok for a 35 year old man to teach a 15 year old girl?  

I know how society feels about it.  I know how the media depicts it.  Is there any chance that men and women. Are not equal?   

Submissive is the correct term.  Bend over and take it like a man.  We all have heard that.   If your taking something given to you in a position that leaves you vulnerable.  Uh, that's pretty much submission !!

I am well aware of my feminine side.  I am very self aware, but being In communication with a softer side does not preclude the fact that submission is part of human behavior between the sexes.  It's very evident in the animal kingdom.  I mean there are the praying mantis and black widows, but they are outliers.  Emproer penguins , sea horses.  Yeah outliers.  

There is a reason male body produces more testosterone then females.  There is a reason women have more curves than men.  

It saddens me how some try and re lable human function, documented for over 10, 000 years, and just in the last 20 years, people are starting a revisionist work of words.  Why? because submission Sounds bad.  

Any man here married?  I guarantee you have played a submissive role in that relationship.  You submit to so things, and she submits to you.  

I laugh at the re wording, but I am left a ghast that submission is seen as a negative word.  It's beautiful to have a women submit to a man.  It's just as beautiful, it's actually more beautiful when a man submits to a women.  Watching a physically stei get sex submit to the weaker....because of love. When a soldier back from war, and gets on his knees to ask his love for her hand.  She is standing over him. He is submitting to her.  Proposals of life long commitment....beautiful.  

According to you guys, the women should now start buying the ring and asking her bitch ass man to marry her.

 Is that when you will be happy.  Whe men are women, and women men.  Is that equal. In your eyes?

Talk about the degrade of human evaluation.  

It's almost seems like if you say it enough times, or re word it, nature will cease to exist the way it is, but change to the way you want it.  

It's not logical.  At all!!  

[Dr. Barry]

When the words come out,
like an angry stream.
You hear yourself say
things you could never mean.
When the heat cools down,
and you find your mind,
you got a lot of words
you've got to stand behind.

[2muchfun]

and I thought the dark ages ended in the 15th century

[Rude]

Umm GBTW, the sexual revolution is nonsense. There was no sexual revolution. People have always been doing it. Our puritanical religious society tried to make sex out to be a dirty act. The newspapers needed something to write about and created this b/c a few women were going topless and not everyone needed to hide the fact they were having sex. People used to much more open about sex thousands of years ago, but the church wanted control. Nothing has been revolutionized.  People still demonize unmarried sex. Legislators still try to pass laws to appease their puritanical base. A few states haven't removed their laws criminalizing oral sex or unmarried cohabitation.  The only reason that men control most of the leadership positions are groups like the southern baptist convention which preach that women are subservient to men and too many sexists can't handle women in charge of anything. 

[PoetryGirl]

Um... here we go fifty- one shades of grey

[2muchfun]

It's all too clear we're on are own

[PoetryGirl]

Vunerable is a beautiful expression. Submission is how we spy on the Russians and keep safe from North Korea. 

[Mango]

sub·mis·sion

səbˈmiSHən/

noun

1. 1.

   the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.

   "they were forced into submission"

   synonyms:

   yielding, capitulation, acceptance, consent, compliance "submission to authority"   Sunny, can you see how you are wrong here, how's this makes sex into an act of domination? A man is vulnerable during sex; a women could stab him in the neck whilst he's orgasming. It's not submission, it's receiving- it's an act of sharing. The words we use are important, nobody is rewriting anything. But perhaps you should rewrite the way you think about it.

[Mango]

sub·mis·sion

səbˈmiSHən/

noun

1. 1.

   the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.

   "they were forced into submission"

   synonyms:

   yielding, capitulation, acceptance, consent, compliance "submission to authority"   Sunny, can you see how you are wrong here, how's this makes sex into an act of domination? A man is vulnerable during sex; a women could stab him in the neck whilst he's orgasming. It's not submission, it's receiving- it's an act of sharing. The words we use are important, nobody is rewriting anything. But perhaps you should rewrite the way you think about it.   next time you want to get intellectual, check a dictionary first ;-)

[Mango]

Additionally, humans are clearly different from the animal kingdom. Something happened along the way that makes us different. I'm not saying superior, per say, but we live and experience life like nothing else on Earth. I, for one, am more than my animal instincts.

[2muchfun]

Mango...Name me one instinct you have that is not animal. Many animals may claim they are "different" than any other animal.

Do females feed young through mamarmy glands? Do we have single bone for lower jaw? Do we have 3 bones in our middles ear? Do we have a main artery leaving heart curving to left? Do we have a diaphragm? Do we have hair? Sounds like a mammal to me.

We share live born and placenta to birth size ratios in our subclass with others. Pandas can argue they are different in ratio.

Yes we eventually come down to our own species but so do many creatures on earth. 

You are correct there are some aspects...the ability as a mammal to reproduce in a face to face position, the ability for knowingly having the ability for self extinction. But I digress...

An objective casual observer looking down would shake his head and say look at those conceited Homo sapiens...shake, head, and say are rhetorical metaphors. " Oh look now those intelligent creatures are masterbating again  to a screen or paper filled with colored pixels...aren't they special"

 

 

 

[PoetryGirl]

The ability to participate in collective thought processes that modify behavior and change the world